"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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NEEED HELP: Is she lieing or not?

Livinlifehard

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Ok so i banged this uglyish chick one night (she caught me at a time when i would have banged almost anything). so i go over there, we have sex (almost right away). I had a condom (trojen) with spermicide. When i get off i pull off the condom and check it for leaks, not like test it a lot just look over it to see if a drop comes out or anything. Nothing... now she says she is a week late.

She started she is a week late, i told her that it shouldnt be late because condom didnt break (used that brand a lot), and i masterbated earlyer that day so it kills sperm count. and then she said "hope your right" i said, "have you taken a pregnancy test?" and she said "no going to wait a week". so i made my point why she shouldnt be pregnate, and then after that she was like "so what you doing this weekend?" like trying to get me to go out. I think she is just going for attention (she was 18)... she isnt good looking, i am a decent catch (decent looks, money, personality), plus i have been kinda ingnoring her a bit after that night... actually ingnoring her A LOT. So what do you guys think? i told a girl this (really good friend) and she said "ya i think she is trying to get attention". i kinda blew her off though and said "well tell me if your ok... ok?" i dont want to give her attention so she wont push this issue. Has this happend to any of you all?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What's there to lie about? She's a week late, that's not lying. But don't stress, women are late on their cycle for a variety of reasons other than being pregnant. Hormones, stress, etc can all affect when she gets her period.

But the bottom line is it doesn't matter what other people "think" she might be doing, if she's pregnant, then you've got a big decision to make. However I wouldn't stress out too badly....yet.



PIMP
 

ryannath

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I think it's very unlikely she is pregnant. The condom worked as planned. Girls can be paranoid about being late when they have been having sex. She could just be testing you though to see how you would react if you really got her pregnant in the future or something.
 

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i know... its just im parinoid i guess... she is saying "i have never been late". and i hope this shows i would be a bad person to have a kid with
 
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I hate hors - tell her to "Go to Hor Hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! " Tell her "Hor - go to hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!", "Go to hell Hor!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" - "Hor, Go To Hor Hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJF or John

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Yeah LivinLife, ummm

I learned my lesson, and it's this...

While you want to have a very high sexual flow...before you even FEEL like cumming, pull out and jack off until you are READY.

Here's the thing, usually, I'm so into the sexual flow and I'm really just beatin the girl's pvssy, making her *** and everything...

But when I start to begin really enjoyin it...I pull out.

And I might eat her pvssy while I jack off.

Keep in mind, I still have on a condom, but I just don't and won't take a chance getting some of these chicks pregnant. Most of the chicks I fvck I don't even see anymore after a week, so it's not like I am trying to have that.

I dont' think your chick is pregnant, but just take this lesson. DO NOT *** IN A CHCIK...I don't care if you have 8 condoms on...don't even get HAPPY in a chick, AT ALL. Pull out and jack it off.

Do like the porno guys do. You see how they tell the chick to get off, and the dude jacks off and makes himself *** that way, do that!

DO NOT *** in a chick, don't even get HAPPY in a chick.
 

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Last Man Standing said:
I hate hors - tell her to "Go to Hor Hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! " Tell her "Hor - go to hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!", "Go to hell Hor!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" - "Hor, Go To Hor Hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
I'm starting to see a trend with this guy and women.... you might have some issues you need to resolve if that's the case
 

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my friend said that i should cut it off right now and say "there is no way i can be, i will want to see a blood test if you are" and now on her myspace she is all saying in blogs she is depressed. I do not need this **** now.
 
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