"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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NEED URGENT HELP!!!

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that girl i met at the bar, originally had a date with her planned for this monday, called her up to confirm and she didnt pick up (i know tis her number) and so i texted and left a message asking her to call me when she could. this is not the first time she hasn't replied so i want to give her one last chance going out with me on monday... what's a good ultimatum i could give her??? i need to give it to her by tomorrow or latest monday morning... cos we're originally supposed to go out in the afternoon.. i wanna give her one last chance before i cut her off... guys out there, give me a good way to put it!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If she ignores you then she isn't interested, move on, don't give her any more chances. I have waited for chicks many times and it always ends up the same.
 
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yeah sounds like she flaked out on you. happens to the best of us. gracefully accept it, and move on to other women :)
 
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Why is it that important that you confirm the date? Maybe it's a cultural thing, so maybe i'm completely off track here.

In my eyes this ultimatum thing appears WAY too desperate. Just look at her actions. If she doesn't show up and doesn't find some really good excuse and really makes up for it NEXT her.

Please don't go threatening the girls that you would leave her if she doesn't give you the attention. Wether she is a ***** or you are not getting her attention, which could be a hint at looking at your actions and appearance. In either case, NEXT her. SO WHAT?

At least that's my opinion.

Isn't it one of the first things to learn on our way to be DJs that desperation and oneintis are the single most important mistakes made?

MoveYourA$$... and your brain will follow
 
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Listen Jakeboy,,,,,,, If it was someone she really liked, she would stay near the phone so she won't miss your call.

Another thing, don't make a date out of the blue once you meet someone, take down their phone number and then call them up and then make a date on the spot. Saves you trouble.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ah DJDamage, thats a sound piece of advice.

Isn't it one of the first things to learn on our way to be DJs that desperation and oneintis are the single most important mistakes made?
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hey MoveYourAss, i'm not desperate and i don't have oneitis for this chick. i just hate people who flake out on me with no cause. well, i guess in the end its up to the individual, one guy gave me the advice of "three strikes and you're out" but i guess the big picture is i gotta NEXT her.

but if anyone can answer this question, i would be hella glad.
why in the world would a woman willingly agree to go out with you and suddenly ignore you in the end and flake out on you. guys who've been in this position before... do tell!
 
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As DJ was saying, there can be 101 reasons why someone skips out. The problem here is likely that you have no history with her, so making a date with her doesn't have much significance to her.
If she is attractive (or socially very active) she probably gets alot of offers, and if someone comes along that seems more interesting than you, or she gets busy doing something she's interested in (like a hobby) your 'date' fades from memory.
 
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yup i guess thats very true... so i guess this thread is done for... screw that biatch.thanks for all the advice guys! NEXXXXXXXXXXXT.
 
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Don't waste your time and money!!

Hey jakeboy,
she is giving you turnrounds and you are still sticking around her?

throw her out of your life like a used condom in the dustbin.

don't make it that much imp.

enjoy and **** her best friend .

Tuffy
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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wow. she finally decided to reply. she said :'hey jake, sorry i have been really really busy these past few days.. i have to reconfirm tomorrow with you, call me later"

and i told her that i would call her the next morning, told her to go do her thang and get some rest today...

sudden turnaround of events. (again) so i'll go along with it one final time and see what she say tomorrow morning... doubt she'd be too much of a bit*h... but i want to see what she says.

will let you guys know
 
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I DONT F-ING BELIEVE IT. SHE TOTALLY FLAKED ON ME AT THE LAST MOMENT!!! called her in the morning, no answer, so i left her a message asking her to call me when she wakes. no reply. ****. NEXXXXXXXXXXXT. but wait, if she calls apologizing tomorrow or the day after... what can i say to her to let her know i don't like to be treated like the crap she takes me for?
 
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