I am new to forum, this is my first post. I have been texting and having a phone conversation with this girl for about 2 weeks now. She seemed awesome at first and she is really really hot. Tonight things took a major turn for the worse, I told her that uncle was throwing a hotel party this weekend and asked me to go. So I wouldn't be able to talk much. She totally flipped out on me and threatened my life, after I got her calmed down, I just straight up asked her if this was going to be a common thing her threatening my life. She replied with " only when you piss me off ". in shock, that my first rebound relationship, i manage to find a complete psychopath. In this silence she says " you should know those are empty threats, I would hurt someone that i care about, that would just hurt myself " I want to run for the hills, how do I get rid of her? Also any warning signs for future dates, before this happens again? Thanks to all that apply.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
It sounds like she's bipolar.
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Go ghost on her (no contact) and if she finds you somewhere just turn into the biggest AFC possible. I would stick to NC, though.