I am new to forum, this is my first post. I have been texting and having a phone conversation with this girl for about 2 weeks now. She seemed awesome at first and she is really really hot. Tonight things took a major turn for the worse, I told her that uncle was throwing a hotel party this weekend and asked me to go. So I wouldn't be able to talk much. She totally flipped out on me and threatened my life, after I got her calmed down, I just straight up asked her if this was going to be a common thing her threatening my life. She replied with " only when you piss me off ". in shock, that my first rebound relationship, i manage to find a complete psychopath. In this silence she says " you should know those are empty threats, I would hurt someone that i care about, that would just hurt myself " I want to run for the hills, how do I get rid of her? Also any warning signs for future dates, before this happens again? Thanks to all that apply.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bible_Belt
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It sounds like she's bipolar.
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Go ghost on her (no contact) and if she finds you somewhere just turn into the biggest AFC possible. I would stick to NC, though.