I am new to forum, this is my first post. I have been texting and having a phone conversation with this girl for about 2 weeks now. She seemed awesome at first and she is really really hot. Tonight things took a major turn for the worse, I told her that uncle was throwing a hotel party this weekend and asked me to go. So I wouldn't be able to talk much. She totally flipped out on me and threatened my life, after I got her calmed down, I just straight up asked her if this was going to be a common thing her threatening my life. She replied with " only when you piss me off ". in shock, that my first rebound relationship, i manage to find a complete psychopath. In this silence she says " you should know those are empty threats, I would hurt someone that i care about, that would just hurt myself " I want to run for the hills, how do I get rid of her? Also any warning signs for future dates, before this happens again? Thanks to all that apply.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Bible_Belt
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It sounds like she's bipolar.
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Go ghost on her (no contact) and if she finds you somewhere just turn into the biggest AFC possible. I would stick to NC, though.