"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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need tinder advice girls just ignore me when ask number

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I seem to do ok on dating sites but tinder i get few decent matches we talk few days i ask for number and they start ignoring me how do you talk to these chicks get them our dor drinks?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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First off for some reason I have no luck on Tinder whatsoever. I get hit up by girl's more on FB or Twitter then Tinder. Also in real life at school and at work my success is way better then Tinder. You would think my actual real life success would translate to Tinder.

If I were you I'd honestly stick to going out and meeting girl's. You can use Tinder for fun if you want. But go out infiltrate some social circles and make it happen!
 

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Be hotter in your pics or switch to areas where girls are less picky.
 

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From New Orleans, Louisiana to Atlanta, Georgia!!!
Either:

1. You're not that attractive
2. You waited too late to make a move
3. You were dealing with an attention wh0re

The area you're in don't mean sh*t.

Case closed.
 
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How do u infltrate social circles im only involved in one ans theres really barely any women hangout with us??
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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nismo-4 said:
Either:

1. You're not that attractive
2. You waited too late to make a move
3. You were dealing with an attention wh0re

The area you're in don't mean sh*t.

Case closed.
Yes it does!!! Location is important in every aspect not just including women. I didn't start pulling results in tinder until I expanded my range and stopped trying to mess around girls at my university. The competition is too high and the girls are spoiled vs a girl that goes to community college/works all day and is eager to meet a decent guy outside her bumass high school social circle. Plus, being a minority hurts your chances at a traditional sec school like mine because all the girls want a republican tfm frat daddy. My value goes up when I tell girls outside my university that I go to this school, I am majoring in this business major, in a fraternity, and so on. It doesn't do **** to girls in my university because most of the guys are in a fraternity, good looking, drive a nice, car, majoring in business, and so on. In general, girls in major cities/universities are going to be more pickier than other girls due to lifestyle and higher competition. Not saying it cannot be done, but you will be able to bring in a higher quality girl with less effort vs a lower quality girl with more effort. Nismo is right on the other stuff though.
 
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