You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yes it does!!! Location is important in every aspect not just including women. I didn't start pulling results in tinder until I expanded my range and stopped trying to mess around girls at my university. The competition is too high and the girls are spoiled vs a girl that goes to community college/works all day and is eager to meet a decent guy outside her bumass high school social circle. Plus, being a minority hurts your chances at a traditional sec school like mine because all the girls want a republican tfm frat daddy. My value goes up when I tell girls outside my university that I go to this school, I am majoring in this business major, in a fraternity, and so on. It doesn't do **** to girls in my university because most of the guys are in a fraternity, good looking, drive a nice, car, majoring in business, and so on. In general, girls in major cities/universities are going to be more pickier than other girls due to lifestyle and higher competition. Not saying it cannot be done, but you will be able to bring in a higher quality girl with less effort vs a lower quality girl with more effort. Nismo is right on the other stuff though.nismo-4 said: