"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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need tinder advice girls just ignore me when ask number

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I seem to do ok on dating sites but tinder i get few decent matches we talk few days i ask for number and they start ignoring me how do you talk to these chicks get them our dor drinks?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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First off for some reason I have no luck on Tinder whatsoever. I get hit up by girl's more on FB or Twitter then Tinder. Also in real life at school and at work my success is way better then Tinder. You would think my actual real life success would translate to Tinder.

If I were you I'd honestly stick to going out and meeting girl's. You can use Tinder for fun if you want. But go out infiltrate some social circles and make it happen!
 

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Be hotter in your pics or switch to areas where girls are less picky.
 

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From New Orleans, Louisiana to Atlanta, Georgia!!!
Either:

1. You're not that attractive
2. You waited too late to make a move
3. You were dealing with an attention wh0re

The area you're in don't mean sh*t.

Case closed.
 
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How do u infltrate social circles im only involved in one ans theres really barely any women hangout with us??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nismo-4 said:
Either:

1. You're not that attractive
2. You waited too late to make a move
3. You were dealing with an attention wh0re

The area you're in don't mean sh*t.

Case closed.
Yes it does!!! Location is important in every aspect not just including women. I didn't start pulling results in tinder until I expanded my range and stopped trying to mess around girls at my university. The competition is too high and the girls are spoiled vs a girl that goes to community college/works all day and is eager to meet a decent guy outside her bumass high school social circle. Plus, being a minority hurts your chances at a traditional sec school like mine because all the girls want a republican tfm frat daddy. My value goes up when I tell girls outside my university that I go to this school, I am majoring in this business major, in a fraternity, and so on. It doesn't do **** to girls in my university because most of the guys are in a fraternity, good looking, drive a nice, car, majoring in business, and so on. In general, girls in major cities/universities are going to be more pickier than other girls due to lifestyle and higher competition. Not saying it cannot be done, but you will be able to bring in a higher quality girl with less effort vs a lower quality girl with more effort. Nismo is right on the other stuff though.
 
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