Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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dadmonson

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This maybe a strange question, but when your talken to a girl on line that you know but they don't know that they know you and they ask u who u are and u don't want them to know who u are, what is a clever and funny thing to say back when she ask who u are? Can u please help me, please?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sorry, but that seems to me to be borderline stalking? I mean, maybe doing it once for 5 minutes or so (as a joke) is funny, but more than that and it seems kind of creepy. If you have to post here to ask what to say in that situation, maybe you shouldn't be doing it! Spontaneity! :)
 

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UH OH.....This thread is just a couple big fat NO NOs....Please do not ever ask a question like this again. Youre not border line stalker....youre just AFC to the extreme. No worries tho man, everyone has been through that stage (well maybe not everyone), but go read the bible, come back, realize how stupid your question was, and pimp some hos (not on aim!!).

peace
 

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Yo I know what I'm doin, I read the bible. I just want to make her laugh. Can yall just give me an answer to my question, please.
 

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Girls find humour funny. They're more susceptable to your humour when you make them feel comfortable. Acting like a stalker isn't going to get you anywhere as they won't feel comfortable.

This isn't a video game. You can't "reload" and try hitting her up with a new screename. You've got to be yourself and run the risk of getting rejected.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If I knew them it would be a ball.

Start off with. 'I have an intuition about you...

Then reveal stuff they haven't told you. They'll think you are David Blaine or something. Of course there is one obvious flaw in the plan.

But who knows, if she finds out it's you she might think it's funny or she may think u r a total whack job.
 
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