"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need Sum Aim Help

dadmonson

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This maybe a strange question, but when your talken to a girl on line that you know but they don't know that they know you and they ask u who u are and u don't want them to know who u are, what is a clever and funny thing to say back when she ask who u are? Can u please help me, please?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ronjohn

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Sorry, but that seems to me to be borderline stalking? I mean, maybe doing it once for 5 minutes or so (as a joke) is funny, but more than that and it seems kind of creepy. If you have to post here to ask what to say in that situation, maybe you shouldn't be doing it! Spontaneity! :)
 

undesputable

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UH OH.....This thread is just a couple big fat NO NOs....Please do not ever ask a question like this again. Youre not border line stalker....youre just AFC to the extreme. No worries tho man, everyone has been through that stage (well maybe not everyone), but go read the bible, come back, realize how stupid your question was, and pimp some hos (not on aim!!).

peace
 

dadmonson

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Yo I know what I'm doin, I read the bible. I just want to make her laugh. Can yall just give me an answer to my question, please.
 

Q-Pid

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Girls find humour funny. They're more susceptable to your humour when you make them feel comfortable. Acting like a stalker isn't going to get you anywhere as they won't feel comfortable.

This isn't a video game. You can't "reload" and try hitting her up with a new screename. You've got to be yourself and run the risk of getting rejected.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Alpine

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If I knew them it would be a ball.

Start off with. 'I have an intuition about you...

Then reveal stuff they haven't told you. They'll think you are David Blaine or something. Of course there is one obvious flaw in the plan.

But who knows, if she finds out it's you she might think it's funny or she may think u r a total whack job.
 
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