Need some uh... kissing help

[Nobeard]

Ok so today a girl invited me over to her place to hang out. During the couple hours i was there we spent time playing around (like tickling, poking, stroking, and hitting each other with pillows from the couch).

During this whole time i can't bring myself to kiss her, even though i know she wants me too. Its like i think about doing it, but something blocks me from going through with it.

I have never kissed a girl before and that might be it. However, i have never really had myself feel blocked the way i do.

I dont think its fear, because if i know we both want something there is no reason to be afraid of rejection.

It might be that i just find going mouth-to-mouth with another human a tad disgusting. I do feel that way, but if thats the problem i need to get over it.

So any info that you think would help me in this situation would be greatly appreciated...

 

[lordson]

its not disgusting once you get in there, trust me

dont use too much tongue, common rookie mistake. dont ram it down there either

keep the toungue sparse and light. use mainly lips

 

[ARrocket]

It is fear. Fear of being inexperienced. I have the same problem.

 

[Nobeard]

It is fear. Fear of being inexperienced. I have the same problem.

Huh i never thought of it that way. I guess thats probably what is stopping me i just didn't realize it ><.

So besides going out and actually kissing someone, is there anyway to help me feel a bit more experienced...

 

[lordson]

dont analyse too much

your just wasting your precious time out of your day here

you will kiss

you will be bad at first, but then better

end of story.

 

[Nobeard]

Yeah i guess your right, i just gotta do it thanks for the help

 

[Mr. Me]

It might be that I just find going mouth-to-mouth with another human a tad disgusting.

I guess that would depend on who the other human is.

But if you feel that way about mouth-to-mouth then you're REALLY going to hate sex. But trust me, it is actually more fun than a pillow fight.

Okay, seriously... It seems to me that all this tickling, poking, stroking, and hitting each other with pillows, is actually you two being physical with each other as perhaps some sort of substitute for working out your physical desires, hmmm?

Put the pillow down, and get close to her, pull her into you, put your face in hers, big smile, look in her eyes and tell her you want her to show you how she likes to be kissed.

 

[ready123]

if you're overanalyzing this much, it IS fear

just make it happen and mirror her. every girl kisses how she wants to be kissed so just do what she does back to her

 

[Sir I]

relax sit a little closer gesture her to move closer if she's playfull and give short sweet kisses... do not go licking of her entire face ! big rookie mistake.. I see it all the time and damn there is nothing more funny than seeing that

 

[nismo-4]

You're overanalyzing like hell. Stop that sh*t.

You're just scared of rejection. If she wants it, she won't tell. And for God's sake DO NOT ASK!!! Then you'll really look like an AFC.

If the attraction's there, and you can tell she wants it, JUST DO IT! Strike while the iron's hot! Don't let it get cold, or I hope you prepared your hand! And when you kiss, don't use the tongue unless she does first. And don't exchange too much spit.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Just lean for the kiss . Or smell her on neck , tell her she smells good and lightly kiss her neck than go for real kiss .

Also check my signature . Second thread .

 

[DonGorgon]

Tell her to kiss you cause her lips look so sweet.. bingo.