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Need some tips on on non-alchoholic drinks in a bar/club!

MaxPayne

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Aight am a guy that does not drink at all. Whenever i go to a club or a bar i usually order a Redbull, and am telling u i have had enough already! lol

I need to find a cool non-alchoholic drink to order in a bar or club!

ohhh and if i do order it, i want it to be a MANLY drink :p

Thanks folks.
 

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Hughman

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A manly, non-alcoholic drink?
Soda (carbonated water) and lime is sharp and refreshing.
Ginger ale, again, fiery but refreshing.
 

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Water lol. Its cheaper too.

Do you really feel the need to fit into the bar so well that you need to carry around a mocktail? Order something you like.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

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Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MaxPayne

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No folks trust me i don give a flying Fu*k what people would think of me if am carrying a mocktail or whatever. I just would like to know if there was any good drink that non-alchoholics recommend.

Apparently am just gonna be sticking to Redbull

Peace n Thnx
 

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rockstar?
 

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I am curious as to why would you go to a bar and order a non alcoholic drink?! why aren't you drinking?!

If I want to sober up and feel hydrated, by the end of the night I just ask for water and that's good enough to for me.
 

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Interesting topic as I've been going through this lately. I'm on a cut cycle and limit my adult beverages to 2 beers a night and only on Friday and Saturday nights. I hate RedBull (unless paired with Stoli) so I have been getting 7up. If I'm feeling crazy I'll get a diet Coke or plain old water with some lime squeezed in.

My game is 10 times tighter when I have a sober mind. I'm thinking of making this a permanent rule.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What's the deal with Americans and diet coke?
Fuck that, just get a normal coke.
Diet coke makes you look like a poof.

I'm pretty much a non drinker, whenever I go out, I always just get coke, if I get sick of it I'll get a red bull or something to break it up.

The only beer I don't feel like instantly spitting back out is Corona, and I don't really like the taste of Vodka, though Smirnoff Premium was decent..

But yeah, just go Coke?
 

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King Turi said:
What's the deal with Americans and diet coke?
Fuck that, just get a normal coke.
Diet coke makes you look like a poof.

I'm pretty much a non drinker, whenever I go out, I always just get coke, if I get sick of it I'll get a red bull or something to break it up.

The only beer I don't feel like instantly spitting back out is Corona, and I don't really like the taste of Vodka, though Smirnoff Premium was decent..

But yeah, just go Coke?
there's alot of sugar in regular coke (or any soda beverage for that matter.)

Last time i had a regular coke was years ago and no one ever grills me for it. Nothing "poofy" about it.

If i don't feel like drinking too much i'll just nurse a pint for awhile. Not sure if you want to completely stop drinking or not though. I rarely if every get anything but diet coke or water other than beer and shots.
 

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Well, I've been called a poof for not drinkin' alcohol, so it's give or take.

Diet coke still screws your teeth over though, all the same ****.

If you're workin' out, a normal coke ain't gonna do nothin' to ya weight wise, but I digress.
 

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I always drink a ton of water. Goto the bathroom at least 5 times. The barrrrtenders don't like me ordering free water, but hey, who gives a fvck. Fvck em. They serve me, not the other way around. Most places' bartenders are "o k" with me asking for water, and they always chuck it with too much ice out of spite it seems.

If I order water after ordering beer then some women think I don't like them, that I'm trying to sober up or tell those looking on that I don't want to be seen drunk with HER. People are too damn insecure and sensitive in bars. I say fvck it. If I don't go home with pvssy, then at least I'm healthier from drinkin all that water, flushing my system and pissing out the bad stuff in my bloodstream.
 

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Just get a water if you don't want to drink alcohol.
 

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There are really good non-alcoholic beers.

Try Koppaberg non-alcoholic pear cider. Like liquid bubblegum.
There are also non-alcohoilic beers like Fruuli which is strawberry flavoured, or apple and mango flavoured Heineken. In my opinion, you want a drink that LOOKS like it could be alcoholic, but isn't. E.g a cider drank to halfway and poured into a whisky glass can double for a scotch on the rocks.
 

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I have a family history of alcoholism, so I'm very careful about drinking -- usually no more than 1 or 2 drinks. Many nights, I go out and don't drink at all. I actually enjoy being able to provide my own transportation home if needed.

As for bartenders giving you static about not ordering a "drink" -- tip like you bought a mixed drink and they won't give a fµck Bartenders hate people that don't tip; they could care less what you're drinking. That's stuff the proprietors worry about. If you're tipping, most bartenders won't charge you for a diet coke.

In less crowded bars, I'll sometimes say I'm DD'ing for my friends -- that usually gets free non-alcoholic drinks as well.
 
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