So met this girl a couple weeks ago and asked to get a drink with her. A couple days before the date she messages me and tells me we can't have that drink because she doesn't want to lead me on. Ok. She's texted me a couple of times since then, and today was telling me she wanted her f-buddy to come over. And tried to convince me she was a good girl by saying she's only been with 4 guys (which is utter bs, but whatever). I invited her out for a drink again for tomorrow and she said she couldn't but could next week. I don't care about getting into a relationship with her because apparently she's obsessed with her ex. But I wouldn't mind having some with her, because she sounds like a kinky girl (she was talking about some pretty sexual things, ie wants to have a 3some with a guy and another girl). I don't get the whole telling me about her f-buddy, whether that's a bad thing or not (though doubt it's a good thing). If you need any other info to help let me know.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Need some simple advice for getting with this chick (she's obsessed with her ex)?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
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lol, well obviously she didn't just come out and tell me that she had a f-buddy coming over. What she said was that she hanging out with a guy that she sometimes hangs out with when she's single. So seeing as I'm not a complete idiot I put 2 and 2 together, and teased her about her "friend" a bit.Tiguere said:either that or she is taking you for a fool. telling you she wants her **** buddy to come over i would had put her in place.
In other news I had this girl randomly ask me to get on msn and send her pics. Sent her a couple of pics of me (most of just the chest up) and she says to send her body pics (I agree with a requirement, she has to send me some after). So I do that (because I feel pretty good about my body, although there is always room to improve), and she tells me that I'm not bad looking (oh, what a wonderous compliment, lol) but it's too bad I'm only looking for a toy. I just say I'm looking to have a good time right now, and I'm pretty laid back and take things as they come. I tell her it's her turn with the pics and she sends me about 10 (and from what I see she has a nice ass). She logs off after asking me if she's hot or sexy (although I didn't even get time to answer), so I just tell her I'd better see her sexy ass next week.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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You've asked her for a drink she said no, you want to **** her, but shes probably ****ing somebody else. People always want what they cant have, and you seem to be too available at the moment. Cut the contact.
she said no the first time (well actually she cancelled after saying yes), but a couple days ago she said she wanted to get together next week.todays_news said:You've asked her for a drink she said no, you want to **** her, but shes probably ****ing somebody else. People always want what they cant have, and you seem to be too available at the moment. Cut the contact.