So met this girl a couple weeks ago and asked to get a drink with her. A couple days before the date she messages me and tells me we can't have that drink because she doesn't want to lead me on. Ok. She's texted me a couple of times since then, and today was telling me she wanted her f-buddy to come over. And tried to convince me she was a good girl by saying she's only been with 4 guys (which is utter bs, but whatever). I invited her out for a drink again for tomorrow and she said she couldn't but could next week. I don't care about getting into a relationship with her because apparently she's obsessed with her ex. But I wouldn't mind having some with her, because she sounds like a kinky girl (she was talking about some pretty sexual things, ie wants to have a 3some with a guy and another girl). I don't get the whole telling me about her f-buddy, whether that's a bad thing or not (though doubt it's a good thing). If you need any other info to help let me know.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Need some simple advice for getting with this chick (she's obsessed with her ex)?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
lol, well obviously she didn't just come out and tell me that she had a f-buddy coming over. What she said was that she hanging out with a guy that she sometimes hangs out with when she's single. So seeing as I'm not a complete idiot I put 2 and 2 together, and teased her about her "friend" a bit.Tiguere said:either that or she is taking you for a fool. telling you she wants her **** buddy to come over i would had put her in place.
In other news I had this girl randomly ask me to get on msn and send her pics. Sent her a couple of pics of me (most of just the chest up) and she says to send her body pics (I agree with a requirement, she has to send me some after). So I do that (because I feel pretty good about my body, although there is always room to improve), and she tells me that I'm not bad looking (oh, what a wonderous compliment, lol) but it's too bad I'm only looking for a toy. I just say I'm looking to have a good time right now, and I'm pretty laid back and take things as they come. I tell her it's her turn with the pics and she sends me about 10 (and from what I see she has a nice ass). She logs off after asking me if she's hot or sexy (although I didn't even get time to answer), so I just tell her I'd better see her sexy ass next week.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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You've asked her for a drink she said no, you want to **** her, but shes probably ****ing somebody else. People always want what they cant have, and you seem to be too available at the moment. Cut the contact.
she said no the first time (well actually she cancelled after saying yes), but a couple days ago she said she wanted to get together next week.todays_news said:You've asked her for a drink she said no, you want to **** her, but shes probably ****ing somebody else. People always want what they cant have, and you seem to be too available at the moment. Cut the contact.