Ok I'm new here and I know it says to read the bible before posting but i have a sorta different problem. I am 23 yrs old and I haven't had sex in 1 yr and 7 months. It's not that I haven't gotten the opportunity to because i have. Here's the problem, I can't seem to perform when the situation arises. This has happened to me once in highschool when i was with my gf but it went away. Then I had casual sex for 2 yrs before joining the army.(although I always thought about it before having sex with a new partner but it seemed i could block it out pretty good.) When I joined the army I was stationed in korea for a yr on a all male base. About 7 months into the tour i had sex with some random girl and i was really drunk. About 2 weeks later i meet this girl and i become interested, We go out and drink go back to her place and bam can't get it up. Ever since then I've had trouble in bed. I need to know what to do to get over this bull ****. It's like I can't control my erections.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Need some serious help
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
ok...
so your saying you cannot stay erect for sex?
go see your DOCTOR!
so your saying you cannot stay erect for sex?
go see your DOCTOR!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
HalfAddict
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go to gnc and buy a mega mans vita pack or some enzyte 
HONESTLY I HAVEN'T BEEN HAPPY IN A LONG TIME. I MEAN I HAVE MOMENTS WHEN I'M HAPPY BUT I MOSTLY I DISSAPOINT MYSELF. I NEED TO GET THE NEGATIVES OUT OF MY HEAD!! IT'S LIKE IM TOO HARD ON MYSELF BUT AT THE SAME TIME IM NOT DOING THE RIGHT THINGS.