Ok I'm new here and I know it says to read the bible before posting but i have a sorta different problem. I am 23 yrs old and I haven't had sex in 1 yr and 7 months. It's not that I haven't gotten the opportunity to because i have. Here's the problem, I can't seem to perform when the situation arises. This has happened to me once in highschool when i was with my gf but it went away. Then I had casual sex for 2 yrs before joining the army.(although I always thought about it before having sex with a new partner but it seemed i could block it out pretty good.) When I joined the army I was stationed in korea for a yr on a all male base. About 7 months into the tour i had sex with some random girl and i was really drunk. About 2 weeks later i meet this girl and i become interested, We go out and drink go back to her place and bam can't get it up. Ever since then I've had trouble in bed. I need to know what to do to get over this bull ****. It's like I can't control my erections.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Need some serious help
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
ok...
so your saying you cannot stay erect for sex?
go see your DOCTOR!
so your saying you cannot stay erect for sex?
go see your DOCTOR!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
HalfAddict
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go to gnc and buy a mega mans vita pack or some enzyte 
HONESTLY I HAVEN'T BEEN HAPPY IN A LONG TIME. I MEAN I HAVE MOMENTS WHEN I'M HAPPY BUT I MOSTLY I DISSAPOINT MYSELF. I NEED TO GET THE NEGATIVES OUT OF MY HEAD!! IT'S LIKE IM TOO HARD ON MYSELF BUT AT THE SAME TIME IM NOT DOING THE RIGHT THINGS.