Ok I'm new here and I know it says to read the bible before posting but i have a sorta different problem. I am 23 yrs old and I haven't had sex in 1 yr and 7 months. It's not that I haven't gotten the opportunity to because i have. Here's the problem, I can't seem to perform when the situation arises. This has happened to me once in highschool when i was with my gf but it went away. Then I had casual sex for 2 yrs before joining the army.(although I always thought about it before having sex with a new partner but it seemed i could block it out pretty good.) When I joined the army I was stationed in korea for a yr on a all male base. About 7 months into the tour i had sex with some random girl and i was really drunk. About 2 weeks later i meet this girl and i become interested, We go out and drink go back to her place and bam can't get it up. Ever since then I've had trouble in bed. I need to know what to do to get over this bull ****. It's like I can't control my erections.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Need some serious help
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
ok...
so your saying you cannot stay erect for sex?
go see your DOCTOR!
so your saying you cannot stay erect for sex?
go see your DOCTOR!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
HalfAddict
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go to gnc and buy a mega mans vita pack or some enzyte 
HONESTLY I HAVEN'T BEEN HAPPY IN A LONG TIME. I MEAN I HAVE MOMENTS WHEN I'M HAPPY BUT I MOSTLY I DISSAPOINT MYSELF. I NEED TO GET THE NEGATIVES OUT OF MY HEAD!! IT'S LIKE IM TOO HARD ON MYSELF BUT AT THE SAME TIME IM NOT DOING THE RIGHT THINGS.