"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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need some quick thougth!

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ah what a great day...just got back from my freshman orientation, damn i have 2 say i represent! Bein all confident like im the boss of the place n all. lol funny thing is people acualy treat me like im the boss, n im only a freshman! so were startin school back up, damn bummer! but good 2 practice some dj skills, but the thing is before u can experiment u gotta do the aproach first! so i figured when school finaly start ill just go up 2 1 of the hot girls in my class n start a convo with a simple hi. But Hi? thats so old n gay. besides got nothing intrestin 2 back that HI line up. so any ideas on how 2 get there attention boys?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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damn now i gotta take drastic measures!....next time im gonna come up 2 a chick n pretend im lost! lol ill post another1 afterward!
 

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Fine don't sniff my lines of crack! I am pretty sure I am going to freshman orientations even though I am going to be a sophmore. Who doesn't want to hang with the freshmen chicks. Plus I am new to this school so I don't know my way around. But yeah when I go to school I am just for the first few days wonder around like a poor lost puppy. Maybe someone will adopt me :rolleyes: .
Shouldn't be too hard. Hey you have MSN or yahoo or anything of the such?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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08aisaac what part of kentucky do u live in?
 

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I used to live in Nicholas County Which is around Bath and Bourbon. An hour from Lexingon but now I live in owensboro which is Daviess County and a little ways away from evansville. Do you have MSN or Yahoo or AIM?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I have more post than all. I am bestest! ARGHHH! DANNOWILLBOOKEM SMASH!!!!


seriously, nobody cares. And BTW, orientation kicked ass. I am SOO ready for college. It's gonna be amazing.
 

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
I have more post than all. I am bestest! ARGHHH! DANNOWILLBOOKEM SMASH!!!!


seriously, nobody cares. And BTW, orientation kicked ass. I am SOO ready for college. It's gonna be amazing.
it does matter. i have to keep ahead of aaron. and u dont have the most.

lol.

man i cant wait til college...the main thing holding back my game is parents...
 
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