"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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need some quick thougth!

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ah what a great day...just got back from my freshman orientation, damn i have 2 say i represent! Bein all confident like im the boss of the place n all. lol funny thing is people acualy treat me like im the boss, n im only a freshman! so were startin school back up, damn bummer! but good 2 practice some dj skills, but the thing is before u can experiment u gotta do the aproach first! so i figured when school finaly start ill just go up 2 1 of the hot girls in my class n start a convo with a simple hi. But Hi? thats so old n gay. besides got nothing intrestin 2 back that HI line up. so any ideas on how 2 get there attention boys?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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damn now i gotta take drastic measures!....next time im gonna come up 2 a chick n pretend im lost! lol ill post another1 afterward!
 

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Fine don't sniff my lines of crack! I am pretty sure I am going to freshman orientations even though I am going to be a sophmore. Who doesn't want to hang with the freshmen chicks. Plus I am new to this school so I don't know my way around. But yeah when I go to school I am just for the first few days wonder around like a poor lost puppy. Maybe someone will adopt me :rolleyes: .
Shouldn't be too hard. Hey you have MSN or yahoo or anything of the such?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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08aisaac what part of kentucky do u live in?
 

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I used to live in Nicholas County Which is around Bath and Bourbon. An hour from Lexingon but now I live in owensboro which is Daviess County and a little ways away from evansville. Do you have MSN or Yahoo or AIM?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I have more post than all. I am bestest! ARGHHH! DANNOWILLBOOKEM SMASH!!!!


seriously, nobody cares. And BTW, orientation kicked ass. I am SOO ready for college. It's gonna be amazing.
 

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
I have more post than all. I am bestest! ARGHHH! DANNOWILLBOOKEM SMASH!!!!


seriously, nobody cares. And BTW, orientation kicked ass. I am SOO ready for college. It's gonna be amazing.
it does matter. i have to keep ahead of aaron. and u dont have the most.

lol.

man i cant wait til college...the main thing holding back my game is parents...
 
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