"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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need some quick thougth!

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ah what a great day...just got back from my freshman orientation, damn i have 2 say i represent! Bein all confident like im the boss of the place n all. lol funny thing is people acualy treat me like im the boss, n im only a freshman! so were startin school back up, damn bummer! but good 2 practice some dj skills, but the thing is before u can experiment u gotta do the aproach first! so i figured when school finaly start ill just go up 2 1 of the hot girls in my class n start a convo with a simple hi. But Hi? thats so old n gay. besides got nothing intrestin 2 back that HI line up. so any ideas on how 2 get there attention boys?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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damn now i gotta take drastic measures!....next time im gonna come up 2 a chick n pretend im lost! lol ill post another1 afterward!
 

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Fine don't sniff my lines of crack! I am pretty sure I am going to freshman orientations even though I am going to be a sophmore. Who doesn't want to hang with the freshmen chicks. Plus I am new to this school so I don't know my way around. But yeah when I go to school I am just for the first few days wonder around like a poor lost puppy. Maybe someone will adopt me :rolleyes: .
Shouldn't be too hard. Hey you have MSN or yahoo or anything of the such?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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08aisaac what part of kentucky do u live in?
 

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I used to live in Nicholas County Which is around Bath and Bourbon. An hour from Lexingon but now I live in owensboro which is Daviess County and a little ways away from evansville. Do you have MSN or Yahoo or AIM?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have more post than all. I am bestest! ARGHHH! DANNOWILLBOOKEM SMASH!!!!


seriously, nobody cares. And BTW, orientation kicked ass. I am SOO ready for college. It's gonna be amazing.
 

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
I have more post than all. I am bestest! ARGHHH! DANNOWILLBOOKEM SMASH!!!!


seriously, nobody cares. And BTW, orientation kicked ass. I am SOO ready for college. It's gonna be amazing.
it does matter. i have to keep ahead of aaron. and u dont have the most.

lol.

man i cant wait til college...the main thing holding back my game is parents...
 
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