"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Need some quick help

Paintballguy

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So I have 3 girls coming over my place in a hour.... I need some ideas for stuff to do.

I got the alcohol...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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tr0ublemaker

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strip jeopardy

are they prudes?
 

Paintballguy

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tr0ublemaker said:
strip jeopardy

are they prudes?
dunno yet... Ive only hung out with the one girl twice and she seemed kindof on the shy/prude side. But I guess alcohol could change that.
 

tr0ublemaker

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what do you have cool in your place?
 

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Do you have a pool? If you have a stereo turn it up and start drinking with them....One will take off their top.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Paintballguy

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man i hate prudes.... one girl didnt drink and f'd everything up.

so i ended up going to a friends party at a local college.
 
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