"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need some quick help

Paintballguy

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So I have 3 girls coming over my place in a hour.... I need some ideas for stuff to do.

I got the alcohol...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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tr0ublemaker

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strip jeopardy

are they prudes?
 

Paintballguy

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tr0ublemaker said:
strip jeopardy

are they prudes?
dunno yet... Ive only hung out with the one girl twice and she seemed kindof on the shy/prude side. But I guess alcohol could change that.
 

tr0ublemaker

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what do you have cool in your place?
 

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Do you have a pool? If you have a stereo turn it up and start drinking with them....One will take off their top.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Paintballguy

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man i hate prudes.... one girl didnt drink and f'd everything up.

so i ended up going to a friends party at a local college.
 
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