Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
So I have 3 girls coming over my place in a hour.... I need some ideas for stuff to do.
I got the alcohol...
I got the alcohol...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Need some quick help
- Thread starter Paintballguy
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
tr0ublemaker
Don Juan
strip jeopardy
are they prudes?
are they prudes?
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
dunno yet... Ive only hung out with the one girl twice and she seemed kindof on the shy/prude side. But I guess alcohol could change that.tr0ublemaker said:
tr0ublemaker
Don Juan
what do you have cool in your place?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
man i hate prudes.... one girl didnt drink and f'd everything up.
so i ended up going to a friends party at a local college.
so i ended up going to a friends party at a local college.