"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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twotyme

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I'm really good friends with Bailee(on my top 8) and we even had a date set a few weeks back but some **** happened (I got kicked out) so we had to cancel. We talk and text each other all the time but I'm not sure if she likes me more than jus a friend. Shes into the whole rap/thug guys which i not me, dont know if that makes a difference or not. Also were the same height which kinda sucks but oh well. Should I jus straight up ask her out or what? If things go bad its gonna mess are whole friendship up but at this point I think I'm willing to take that risk.
 

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Oh and for what its worth I was talking to her about relationships and she said that she was in love with a guy but he hurt her so now she has problems letting others in.
 

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Well, you know better than anyone else if the girl your talking about is into you. I would continue being friends with her for some time while giving hints that your into her (dont get your azz in the friend zone) until she forgets about that guy. Then make your move.
 

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Yo dude!!!! I need some friends on my space.. Add me!!!! myspace.com/djartist
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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well I'm at the point where its eaten at me and I think I wanna either be her BF or nuthing at all but I need this now.
 

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Ive done added you bro... oh n yea im from sosuave.com >_<

Before making any type of decision poss man, try meeting her in person... youre game'll work alot better
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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