http://www.myspace.com/byrdless
Yea its that stupid myspace thing again. But can you guys give me some input on everything?
Yea its that stupid myspace thing again. But can you guys give me some input on everything?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Need some opinions!
- Thread starter twotyme
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'm really good friends with Bailee(on my top 8) and we even had a date set a few weeks back but some **** happened (I got kicked out) so we had to cancel. We talk and text each other all the time but I'm not sure if she likes me more than jus a friend. Shes into the whole rap/thug guys which i not me, dont know if that makes a difference or not. Also were the same height which kinda sucks but oh well. Should I jus straight up ask her out or what? If things go bad its gonna mess are whole friendship up but at this point I think I'm willing to take that risk.
BBX
Master Don Juan
Well, you know better than anyone else if the girl your talking about is into you. I would continue being friends with her for some time while giving hints that your into her (dont get your azz in the friend zone) until she forgets about that guy. Then make your move.
shydude
Master Don Juan
Yo dude!!!! I need some friends on my space.. Add me!!!! myspace.com/djartist
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
blackpimpxwali
Banned
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shydude add me,so i can add u,aight!
shydude add me,so i can add u,aight!"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.