"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Need some opinions!

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm really good friends with Bailee(on my top 8) and we even had a date set a few weeks back but some **** happened (I got kicked out) so we had to cancel. We talk and text each other all the time but I'm not sure if she likes me more than jus a friend. Shes into the whole rap/thug guys which i not me, dont know if that makes a difference or not. Also were the same height which kinda sucks but oh well. Should I jus straight up ask her out or what? If things go bad its gonna mess are whole friendship up but at this point I think I'm willing to take that risk.
 

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Oh and for what its worth I was talking to her about relationships and she said that she was in love with a guy but he hurt her so now she has problems letting others in.
 

BBX

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Well, you know better than anyone else if the girl your talking about is into you. I would continue being friends with her for some time while giving hints that your into her (dont get your azz in the friend zone) until she forgets about that guy. Then make your move.
 

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Yo dude!!!! I need some friends on my space.. Add me!!!! myspace.com/djartist
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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twotyme

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well I'm at the point where its eaten at me and I think I wanna either be her BF or nuthing at all but I need this now.
 

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Ive done added you bro... oh n yea im from sosuave.com >_<

Before making any type of decision poss man, try meeting her in person... youre game'll work alot better
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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