"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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twotyme

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I'm really good friends with Bailee(on my top 8) and we even had a date set a few weeks back but some **** happened (I got kicked out) so we had to cancel. We talk and text each other all the time but I'm not sure if she likes me more than jus a friend. Shes into the whole rap/thug guys which i not me, dont know if that makes a difference or not. Also were the same height which kinda sucks but oh well. Should I jus straight up ask her out or what? If things go bad its gonna mess are whole friendship up but at this point I think I'm willing to take that risk.
 

twotyme

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Oh and for what its worth I was talking to her about relationships and she said that she was in love with a guy but he hurt her so now she has problems letting others in.
 

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Well, you know better than anyone else if the girl your talking about is into you. I would continue being friends with her for some time while giving hints that your into her (dont get your azz in the friend zone) until she forgets about that guy. Then make your move.
 

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Yo dude!!!! I need some friends on my space.. Add me!!!! myspace.com/djartist
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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twotyme

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well I'm at the point where its eaten at me and I think I wanna either be her BF or nuthing at all but I need this now.
 

Muphaser

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Ive done added you bro... oh n yea im from sosuave.com >_<

Before making any type of decision poss man, try meeting her in person... youre game'll work alot better
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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