"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I messaged this chick that goes to the same school as me

Subject:can I borrow you?;)

You done know already you're crazy beautiful,and I'm most definately sure you're used to hearing that on a daily basis,drop me back a line when you get some time,beautiful

Her reply:
Do I know u..u callin me beatiful and ****..I don't even kow who u are..lol where do I know u from


Any tips fellas how I should go about escalating this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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russian2

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looks like a fail to me?? she doesnt even know who you are lol...
 

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IMO you lost when u mentioned she was beautiful.
 

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::: sigh ::: starting out with compliments/brown nosing. if u do manage to meet up with this chick, use them sparingly, as they lose emphasis/value everytime you use one.

Are you in college?

You can maybe tell her that you were just browsing thru random myspace pages bored before work one day and she looks like a girl from one of your classes. then go from there.
 

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SayWord? said:
I messaged this chick that goes to the same school as me

Subject:can I borrow you?;)

You done know already you're crazy beautiful,and I'm most definately sure you're used to hearing that on a daily basis,drop me back a line when you get some time,beautiful

Her reply:
Do I know u..u callin me beatiful and ****..I don't even kow who u are..lol where do I know u from


Any tips fellas how I should go about escalating this?
It was not completely AFC, if it truly was AFC she wouldn't have responded. Also, her response was not fully negative. What you did (even though there were direct compliments) had a playful touch to it.

I think your position is pretty good. But, now stop the compliments. Turn the tables and focus the attention on YOU. Just act cool and playful, and let her think you are a cool guy having fun with her. More importantly, do not try gaming her online, you cannot transmit your expressions and your emotional state via text, so see her in person, and game the sh1t outta her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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daygameguy said:
It was not completely AFC, if it truly was AFC she wouldn't have responded. Also, her response was not fully negative. What you did (even though there were direct compliments) had a playful touch to it.
I gotta disagree with this.

AFC's DO get responses, just no real escalation. She doesn't know who he is, but curiosity is what's compelling her to respond, you call any woman beautiful and she wants to know who it is.

It's not a hopeless situation, but unless it gets turned around like you say it'll quickly turn into one.

To OP. Meet Face to Face ASAP. then run your game.
 

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I responded something similar what tizzle posted; whenever she replies ill set up a meeting
 

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Her response doesn't sound good, honestly I doubt this is gonna get anywhere. I got a similar response in that she said something like "hmmm, I usually don't respond to myspace messages, you seem all right tho..." never got a second message after that.
 

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SayWord? said:
I messaged this chick that goes to the same school as me

Subject:can I borrow you?;)

You done know already you're crazy beautiful,and I'm most definately sure you're used to hearing that on a daily basis,drop me back a line when you get some time,beautiful

Her reply:
Do I know u..u callin me beatiful and ****..I don't even kow who u are..lol where do I know u from


Any tips fellas how I should go about escalating this?
Well done!! You're now a creepy guy.
This is difficult to salvage and you have very limited options. I can only advise that you that she you come across as "normal", leave her alone for awhile, be seen to be popular and have lots of friends, basically make sure she knows of you. Then "accidently" meet her, if she brings up the myspace message, laugh it off, turn it into a funny joke... in fact do anything to minimise the impact it had on her. Then try for a relationship.

Sorry thats all i can think of,

Good Luck,
 

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daring wraith said:
Well done!! You're now a creepy guy.
This is difficult to salvage and you have very limited options. I can only advise that you that she you come across as "normal", leave her alone for awhile, be seen to be popular and have lots of friends, basically make sure she knows of you. Then "accidently" meet her, if she brings up the myspace message, laugh it off, turn it into a funny joke... in fact do anything to minimise the impact it had on her. Then try for a relationship.

Sorry thats all i can think of,

Good Luck,
I do have lots of friends;I been had social proof a long time ago.I'm not worried about that at all.if she never responds I personally don't give a damn. I was just doing it for the lulz.

Lol at "creepy"

Preciate the advise though
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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