"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I messaged this chick that goes to the same school as me

Subject:can I borrow you?;)

You done know already you're crazy beautiful,and I'm most definately sure you're used to hearing that on a daily basis,drop me back a line when you get some time,beautiful

Her reply:
Do I know u..u callin me beatiful and ****..I don't even kow who u are..lol where do I know u from


Any tips fellas how I should go about escalating this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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looks like a fail to me?? she doesnt even know who you are lol...
 

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IMO you lost when u mentioned she was beautiful.
 

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::: sigh ::: starting out with compliments/brown nosing. if u do manage to meet up with this chick, use them sparingly, as they lose emphasis/value everytime you use one.

Are you in college?

You can maybe tell her that you were just browsing thru random myspace pages bored before work one day and she looks like a girl from one of your classes. then go from there.
 

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SayWord? said:
I messaged this chick that goes to the same school as me

Subject:can I borrow you?;)

You done know already you're crazy beautiful,and I'm most definately sure you're used to hearing that on a daily basis,drop me back a line when you get some time,beautiful

Her reply:
Do I know u..u callin me beatiful and ****..I don't even kow who u are..lol where do I know u from


Any tips fellas how I should go about escalating this?
It was not completely AFC, if it truly was AFC she wouldn't have responded. Also, her response was not fully negative. What you did (even though there were direct compliments) had a playful touch to it.

I think your position is pretty good. But, now stop the compliments. Turn the tables and focus the attention on YOU. Just act cool and playful, and let her think you are a cool guy having fun with her. More importantly, do not try gaming her online, you cannot transmit your expressions and your emotional state via text, so see her in person, and game the sh1t outta her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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daygameguy said:
It was not completely AFC, if it truly was AFC she wouldn't have responded. Also, her response was not fully negative. What you did (even though there were direct compliments) had a playful touch to it.
I gotta disagree with this.

AFC's DO get responses, just no real escalation. She doesn't know who he is, but curiosity is what's compelling her to respond, you call any woman beautiful and she wants to know who it is.

It's not a hopeless situation, but unless it gets turned around like you say it'll quickly turn into one.

To OP. Meet Face to Face ASAP. then run your game.
 

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I responded something similar what tizzle posted; whenever she replies ill set up a meeting
 

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Her response doesn't sound good, honestly I doubt this is gonna get anywhere. I got a similar response in that she said something like "hmmm, I usually don't respond to myspace messages, you seem all right tho..." never got a second message after that.
 

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SayWord? said:
I messaged this chick that goes to the same school as me

Subject:can I borrow you?;)

You done know already you're crazy beautiful,and I'm most definately sure you're used to hearing that on a daily basis,drop me back a line when you get some time,beautiful

Her reply:
Do I know u..u callin me beatiful and ****..I don't even kow who u are..lol where do I know u from


Any tips fellas how I should go about escalating this?
Well done!! You're now a creepy guy.
This is difficult to salvage and you have very limited options. I can only advise that you that she you come across as "normal", leave her alone for awhile, be seen to be popular and have lots of friends, basically make sure she knows of you. Then "accidently" meet her, if she brings up the myspace message, laugh it off, turn it into a funny joke... in fact do anything to minimise the impact it had on her. Then try for a relationship.

Sorry thats all i can think of,

Good Luck,
 

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daring wraith said:
Well done!! You're now a creepy guy.
This is difficult to salvage and you have very limited options. I can only advise that you that she you come across as "normal", leave her alone for awhile, be seen to be popular and have lots of friends, basically make sure she knows of you. Then "accidently" meet her, if she brings up the myspace message, laugh it off, turn it into a funny joke... in fact do anything to minimise the impact it had on her. Then try for a relationship.

Sorry thats all i can think of,

Good Luck,
I do have lots of friends;I been had social proof a long time ago.I'm not worried about that at all.if she never responds I personally don't give a damn. I was just doing it for the lulz.

Lol at "creepy"

Preciate the advise though
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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