"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Need some more guidance... fast

crimsonclockwork

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To sum it all up. This girl (I think) really likes me. Shes no innocent girl either. She calls me up all the time to ask me to do ****, and half the time I say no. Well yesterday She says her parents are outta town and shes home alone and asked me if I wanted to come over. I said sure... But then my friend came over, and frankly I would rather spend time with my friend and doin that kinda stuff than go over to her house. (see? This site really does help you get over girls). Anyways, she calls me asking where I am and I say I can't go, but we'll do something tommorow. Tommorow is here, and shes home alone. Should I go for it? I mean I think all the signs are there... Thanks.


Sorry for the haste post, but it would be benificial. And how should I go about doing it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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blienk

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Yes, all the signs are there. So do what you want. It's your life, not ours.
 

CribMaster345

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i wish the girl i liked invited me over ..i'd be over her house everyday no lie. god damn dude **** your friend, go over her house!
 

RaMar

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man, sometimes people post questions on here and I don't even understand why they are asking their "question." this is one of those times.

I don't know what the hell you want us to tell you man. This isn't something that we can give you advice on. This is something you need to descide.


....stupid braggers.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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crimsonclockwork

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Originally posted by RaMar
man, sometimes people post questions on here and I don't even understand why they are asking their "question." this is one of those times.

I don't know what the hell you want us to tell you man. This isn't something that we can give you advice on. This is something you need to descide.


....stupid braggers.
I just wanted some advice on how to go about the situation while I was there. And maybe some confidence? Thanks for your informative post. :rolleyes:
 

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Lucky @#$@%#$^

Your friend can wait, you don't get that kinda chances everyday.
 

crimsonclockwork

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Alright... So this is how it went. I went to her house. And we watched a movie. Frankly I wasn't into making out with her or anything because I was kinda tired. So I kino'd her, and all that. Also, we didn't know when her brother was coming home, so that could have killed the moment. Anyways, we just talked and all that. I might post some tips later on, but to her-it seemed I really didn't have that much of an intrest in her the entire time, so we endded up talking and **** like that. Mild flirting, and kino. So I finally leave when some of her friends show up (with questions of course). I guess she assumed I was going to go out with her and her friends, but told her I had other plans, and she got mad. Anyways, she calls me up later to see if I want to hang out again. I must of done something right though. :confused:
 
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