"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bron-Yr-Aur Stomp.

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Here's my situation.

A year ago I was with this girl. Pretty serious, but then the fact that went to different school's broke it up.

During her stay at the other school, she got herself a boyfriend.
Now she's tranferred to my school. I want her back. But she's taken.

So, I have no idea how to go about it. Her new boyfriend means nothing to me. I don't know him. But she does.

Anyways, first day back, I used countless neg-hits on her. ( Her reaction wasn't what I had hoped for to say the least).

Is there anybody who could give me any useful advice, as for what to do now?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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heres some advice for you

get over your one-itis and find a new girl!


wow, that took alot of thought!
 
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The truth does hurt sometimes. We all can see it - why can't you?

You may think thats not advise but if you actually did move on with your life then your x-gf would most likely notice. Of course often when you self-improve you realize that you never want to go back to the past.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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