"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bron-Yr-Aur Stomp.

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Here's my situation.

A year ago I was with this girl. Pretty serious, but then the fact that went to different school's broke it up.

During her stay at the other school, she got herself a boyfriend.
Now she's tranferred to my school. I want her back. But she's taken.

So, I have no idea how to go about it. Her new boyfriend means nothing to me. I don't know him. But she does.

Anyways, first day back, I used countless neg-hits on her. ( Her reaction wasn't what I had hoped for to say the least).

Is there anybody who could give me any useful advice, as for what to do now?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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heres some advice for you

get over your one-itis and find a new girl!


wow, that took alot of thought!
 
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The truth does hurt sometimes. We all can see it - why can't you?

You may think thats not advise but if you actually did move on with your life then your x-gf would most likely notice. Of course often when you self-improve you realize that you never want to go back to the past.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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