"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need some help.

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Here's my situation.

A year ago I was with this girl. Pretty serious, but then the fact that went to different school's broke it up.

During her stay at the other school, she got herself a boyfriend.
Now she's tranferred to my school. I want her back. But she's taken.

So, I have no idea how to go about it. Her new boyfriend means nothing to me. I don't know him. But she does.

Anyways, first day back, I used countless neg-hits on her. ( Her reaction wasn't what I had hoped for to say the least).

Is there anybody who could give me any useful advice, as for what to do now?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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brenbaus

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heres some advice for you

get over your one-itis and find a new girl!


wow, that took alot of thought!
 

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The truth does hurt sometimes. We all can see it - why can't you?

You may think thats not advise but if you actually did move on with your life then your x-gf would most likely notice. Of course often when you self-improve you realize that you never want to go back to the past.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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