"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Need some help.

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Here's my situation.

A year ago I was with this girl. Pretty serious, but then the fact that went to different school's broke it up.

During her stay at the other school, she got herself a boyfriend.
Now she's tranferred to my school. I want her back. But she's taken.

So, I have no idea how to go about it. Her new boyfriend means nothing to me. I don't know him. But she does.

Anyways, first day back, I used countless neg-hits on her. ( Her reaction wasn't what I had hoped for to say the least).

Is there anybody who could give me any useful advice, as for what to do now?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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brenbaus

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heres some advice for you

get over your one-itis and find a new girl!


wow, that took alot of thought!
 

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The truth does hurt sometimes. We all can see it - why can't you?

You may think thats not advise but if you actually did move on with your life then your x-gf would most likely notice. Of course often when you self-improve you realize that you never want to go back to the past.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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