"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need some help!!!

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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eaglez1177

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Lol next time use the search or something...this question has answers all over the site.

"Hey lets see a movie this saturday".

Never ask.
 

CoolProgram99

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Jaja, ok first just be relaxed and keep it cool. You don't have to worry and think you can be needy, just play it fun and invite her with some of the following (depending on what do you want to do):

-Hey, I was going to check out x movie, but I need an expert in this topic. So if you are, why don't you join me and I'll test you?

-I'll get a cup of coffee (or ice cream I prefer) after class. Why don't you come over?

-(The most basic one haha) Care to join me in (say place) at (say time)?

Just invite as you would invite a friend, only with the C&F attitude, and just don't worry. Don't show a lot of interest and don't think it, and you won't be seen as needy or wuss.
And another councel: DON'T ASK her if she wants to go with you, INVITE HER to join you, as if you either didn't care if she wants or not.

Hope it helps, good luck buddy ;)
 

pipe007

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best way for me so far.

- assume she will say yes
- use that attitude and confidence to ask her out.
- be assertive and show your leadership dominance when you ask her out.
- subtly let her understand that she will love the time spent with you.
- if she says no, or doesnt counter-offer another day, she gets NEXTed.
- you are the prize. She should be more than happy to go out with you.

now how would you ask her out if you knew she would love to go out with you? and you knew she is itching to go out with you.... you just need to say it...

"hey i think we should hang out this weekend... I'm a lil busy thursday and friday, but saturday works for me, and you? lets do XXXXX whatever,

"great" "lets do it at this place at this time, and ill pick you up at this time, wear something cute ;)"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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