Mr.Freestyler19
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Best way to ask a girl to hang out without it been needy or any other AFC sign......
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Need some help!!!
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Lol next time use the search or something...this question has answers all over the site.
"Hey lets see a movie this saturday".
Never ask.
"Hey lets see a movie this saturday".
Never ask.
Mr.Freestyler19
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Jaja, ok first just be relaxed and keep it cool. You don't have to worry and think you can be needy, just play it fun and invite her with some of the following (depending on what do you want to do):
-Hey, I was going to check out x movie, but I need an expert in this topic. So if you are, why don't you join me and I'll test you?
-I'll get a cup of coffee (or ice cream I prefer) after class. Why don't you come over?
-(The most basic one haha) Care to join me in (say place) at (say time)?
Just invite as you would invite a friend, only with the C&F attitude, and just don't worry. Don't show a lot of interest and don't think it, and you won't be seen as needy or wuss.
And another councel: DON'T ASK her if she wants to go with you, INVITE HER to join you, as if you either didn't care if she wants or not.
Hope it helps, good luck buddy
-Hey, I was going to check out x movie, but I need an expert in this topic. So if you are, why don't you join me and I'll test you?
-I'll get a cup of coffee (or ice cream I prefer) after class. Why don't you come over?
-(The most basic one haha) Care to join me in (say place) at (say time)?
Just invite as you would invite a friend, only with the C&F attitude, and just don't worry. Don't show a lot of interest and don't think it, and you won't be seen as needy or wuss.
And another councel: DON'T ASK her if she wants to go with you, INVITE HER to join you, as if you either didn't care if she wants or not.
Hope it helps, good luck buddy
best way for me so far.
- assume she will say yes
- use that attitude and confidence to ask her out.
- be assertive and show your leadership dominance when you ask her out.
- subtly let her understand that she will love the time spent with you.
- if she says no, or doesnt counter-offer another day, she gets NEXTed.
- you are the prize. She should be more than happy to go out with you.
now how would you ask her out if you knew she would love to go out with you? and you knew she is itching to go out with you.... you just need to say it...
"hey i think we should hang out this weekend... I'm a lil busy thursday and friday, but saturday works for me, and you? lets do XXXXX whatever,
"great" "lets do it at this place at this time, and ill pick you up at this time, wear something cute"
- assume she will say yes
- use that attitude and confidence to ask her out.
- be assertive and show your leadership dominance when you ask her out.
- subtly let her understand that she will love the time spent with you.
- if she says no, or doesnt counter-offer another day, she gets NEXTed.
- you are the prize. She should be more than happy to go out with you.
now how would you ask her out if you knew she would love to go out with you? and you knew she is itching to go out with you.... you just need to say it...
"hey i think we should hang out this weekend... I'm a lil busy thursday and friday, but saturday works for me, and you? lets do XXXXX whatever,
"great" "lets do it at this place at this time, and ill pick you up at this time, wear something cute
"“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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k thnks guys