"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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eaglez1177

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Lol next time use the search or something...this question has answers all over the site.

"Hey lets see a movie this saturday".

Never ask.
 
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Jaja, ok first just be relaxed and keep it cool. You don't have to worry and think you can be needy, just play it fun and invite her with some of the following (depending on what do you want to do):

-Hey, I was going to check out x movie, but I need an expert in this topic. So if you are, why don't you join me and I'll test you?

-I'll get a cup of coffee (or ice cream I prefer) after class. Why don't you come over?

-(The most basic one haha) Care to join me in (say place) at (say time)?

Just invite as you would invite a friend, only with the C&F attitude, and just don't worry. Don't show a lot of interest and don't think it, and you won't be seen as needy or wuss.
And another councel: DON'T ASK her if she wants to go with you, INVITE HER to join you, as if you either didn't care if she wants or not.

Hope it helps, good luck buddy ;)
 
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best way for me so far.

- assume she will say yes
- use that attitude and confidence to ask her out.
- be assertive and show your leadership dominance when you ask her out.
- subtly let her understand that she will love the time spent with you.
- if she says no, or doesnt counter-offer another day, she gets NEXTed.
- you are the prize. She should be more than happy to go out with you.

now how would you ask her out if you knew she would love to go out with you? and you knew she is itching to go out with you.... you just need to say it...

"hey i think we should hang out this weekend... I'm a lil busy thursday and friday, but saturday works for me, and you? lets do XXXXX whatever,

"great" "lets do it at this place at this time, and ill pick you up at this time, wear something cute ;)"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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