"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need some help with this one

SamMalone

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There is this girl at work that has been real interested in me. She keeps asking to come up and hang out but I've been playing hard to get and keep saying I'm busy (although I genuinly have been busy, but I probably could have made time). Anyways, I was thinking about asking her over this weekend, but I'm wondering if maybe the "tension" would be gone once I do so? Just typing this out I realize I'm overanalyzing this, but how would you guys go about it. Should I text her the day of or a few days before as well?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SamMalone

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Well I am done with school on thursday, so I was going to ask her over then.
 

Mavrick

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You're busy on weekends. Call from Mondays through Thursdays.
 

ARrocket

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Yeah, you "should" be busy on weekends, but be careful...you've already blown her off a couple of times...you need to be hard to get but not IMPOSSIBLE to get. Call her up and have a specific plan in mind, invite her, and have a blast.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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