There is this girl at work that has been real interested in me. She keeps asking to come up and hang out but I've been playing hard to get and keep saying I'm busy (although I genuinly have been busy, but I probably could have made time). Anyways, I was thinking about asking her over this weekend, but I'm wondering if maybe the "tension" would be gone once I do so? Just typing this out I realize I'm overanalyzing this, but how would you guys go about it. Should I text her the day of or a few days before as well?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Need some help with this one
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