"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need some help with my game

Remulak

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I've noticed lately that I get more results by not trying to hit on girls at all. When I just hang out and don't try, girls will try to talk to me. The problem is when I express any type of interest back they suddenly back off and don't want anything to do with me anymore. It's getting kind of annoying and don't know what to do. If i actually try they're not interested.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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There are a number of different reasons her initial attraction could fade. How do you come off to these girls? Are you demonstrating value and that you're an interesting guy? Are you talking slowly and loud enough?
 

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Remulak said:
I've noticed lately that I get more results by not trying to hit on girls at all. When I just hang out and don't try, girls will try to talk to me.
This is the way to do it. :up:

The problem is when I express any type of interest back they suddenly back off and don't want anything to do with me anymore. It's getting kind of annoying and don't know what to do.
Do you see the problem here? You've made yourself appear to me a man who isn't interested in them. Then when they go to investigate they find out you're just another chump who requires no effort to "conquer." Women enjoy a challenge.

How are you trying? And where exactly?

You should try to shift your perspective. Continue the attitude of not hitting on them, by minimizing what you say to them. Always turn the conversation back towards her, and make yourself appear to be moderately interested at best. (Like you're going to leave without warning.) Women love to talk, so let her.

When she asks you about yourself, keep it minimal. You make a lot of money, no matter what you do, (and you should be working towards that regardless.) You're an in demand person and she should be happy that shes talking to you.

The idea here is to minimize the amount of things you say or do so that she has less of a reason not to sleep with you. Women don't like to think of themselves as sluts and rationalize (or try to) everything. So the more you talk, the more of a chance she will find no interest in you.

Keep it simple, interesting and be ready to next.
 
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