"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Need some help with a homecoming situation

Pdizzzzzzle

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Yo guys haven't posted in here a while, but I need some help with this...

Let's say I have 2 friends, friend A and B. Friend A asked me to take this one girl to homecoming so that he could take her friend, but I played it like I dont know if I can or not blah blah blah because I wanted to play the field. Later on the same day, friend B asks me to take a different girl because him and a couple of other guys are taking some this girls friends and they thought I could really help everyone have fun by going with them. Once again, I kinda played it out. A few days play out and friend A catches me teepeeing his car one night (doosh move I know, but I wasn't all there). He gets really pissed and I must admit I kinda felt bad. So I said I'd go to homecoming with his girl's friend to make it up to him. This slightly pissed friend B off, but not that much. But unfortunately, turn's out that the girl friend A has me going with is not good looking and weird. Not only that, but she's a *****. Friend B introduced me to the girl I would have taken to homecoming, and shes hot and pretty chill. Anyway< i go back to friend A and ask him why I have to be the one to take with his date's friend, there's tons of other kids. I told him about the situation with friend B and asked him if I could switch out. Friend A gets pissy, saying I'm going back on my word and bailing on him. I just walked away, and though about it for a few hours. I was initially just gonna suck one up and take one for A but then I got home, and checked my phone. Friend A sent me a text saying "you owe me for messing with my car", which I thought was a prick move. He also flipped me off in the parking lot as I went home from school.

So that's it. Sorry for the wall o' text. Any of you got any input.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Thatsalotoffish

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LOL tell him to get stuffed and go with Friend B, why the hell do you wanna be stuck with an ugly girl, you owe your friend **** tbh, live life for yourself.
 

youngdon

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Honestly do whats going make you happy and **** the rest . I mean Homecoming comes around once a year and friend A knows the ***** is ugly etc. and still trying to set you up with her that is not being a good wingman/bro since he knows theres a hotter girl for you. You still do kind of owe him but find another way and A friend is being a D-bag about it trying to hold it over your head when theres other ways to make it up.
 
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