"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Need some help with a homecoming situation

Pdizzzzzzle

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Yo guys haven't posted in here a while, but I need some help with this...

Let's say I have 2 friends, friend A and B. Friend A asked me to take this one girl to homecoming so that he could take her friend, but I played it like I dont know if I can or not blah blah blah because I wanted to play the field. Later on the same day, friend B asks me to take a different girl because him and a couple of other guys are taking some this girls friends and they thought I could really help everyone have fun by going with them. Once again, I kinda played it out. A few days play out and friend A catches me teepeeing his car one night (doosh move I know, but I wasn't all there). He gets really pissed and I must admit I kinda felt bad. So I said I'd go to homecoming with his girl's friend to make it up to him. This slightly pissed friend B off, but not that much. But unfortunately, turn's out that the girl friend A has me going with is not good looking and weird. Not only that, but she's a *****. Friend B introduced me to the girl I would have taken to homecoming, and shes hot and pretty chill. Anyway< i go back to friend A and ask him why I have to be the one to take with his date's friend, there's tons of other kids. I told him about the situation with friend B and asked him if I could switch out. Friend A gets pissy, saying I'm going back on my word and bailing on him. I just walked away, and though about it for a few hours. I was initially just gonna suck one up and take one for A but then I got home, and checked my phone. Friend A sent me a text saying "you owe me for messing with my car", which I thought was a prick move. He also flipped me off in the parking lot as I went home from school.

So that's it. Sorry for the wall o' text. Any of you got any input.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thatsalotoffish

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LOL tell him to get stuffed and go with Friend B, why the hell do you wanna be stuck with an ugly girl, you owe your friend **** tbh, live life for yourself.
 

youngdon

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Honestly do whats going make you happy and **** the rest . I mean Homecoming comes around once a year and friend A knows the ***** is ugly etc. and still trying to set you up with her that is not being a good wingman/bro since he knows theres a hotter girl for you. You still do kind of owe him but find another way and A friend is being a D-bag about it trying to hold it over your head when theres other ways to make it up.
 
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