"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Need some help with a homecoming situation

Pdizzzzzzle

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Yo guys haven't posted in here a while, but I need some help with this...

Let's say I have 2 friends, friend A and B. Friend A asked me to take this one girl to homecoming so that he could take her friend, but I played it like I dont know if I can or not blah blah blah because I wanted to play the field. Later on the same day, friend B asks me to take a different girl because him and a couple of other guys are taking some this girls friends and they thought I could really help everyone have fun by going with them. Once again, I kinda played it out. A few days play out and friend A catches me teepeeing his car one night (doosh move I know, but I wasn't all there). He gets really pissed and I must admit I kinda felt bad. So I said I'd go to homecoming with his girl's friend to make it up to him. This slightly pissed friend B off, but not that much. But unfortunately, turn's out that the girl friend A has me going with is not good looking and weird. Not only that, but she's a *****. Friend B introduced me to the girl I would have taken to homecoming, and shes hot and pretty chill. Anyway< i go back to friend A and ask him why I have to be the one to take with his date's friend, there's tons of other kids. I told him about the situation with friend B and asked him if I could switch out. Friend A gets pissy, saying I'm going back on my word and bailing on him. I just walked away, and though about it for a few hours. I was initially just gonna suck one up and take one for A but then I got home, and checked my phone. Friend A sent me a text saying "you owe me for messing with my car", which I thought was a prick move. He also flipped me off in the parking lot as I went home from school.

So that's it. Sorry for the wall o' text. Any of you got any input.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thatsalotoffish

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LOL tell him to get stuffed and go with Friend B, why the hell do you wanna be stuck with an ugly girl, you owe your friend **** tbh, live life for yourself.
 

youngdon

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Honestly do whats going make you happy and **** the rest . I mean Homecoming comes around once a year and friend A knows the ***** is ugly etc. and still trying to set you up with her that is not being a good wingman/bro since he knows theres a hotter girl for you. You still do kind of owe him but find another way and A friend is being a D-bag about it trying to hold it over your head when theres other ways to make it up.
 
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