"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Need some help w/ competition

EdHunter

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Tomorrow night, I am looking forward to a nice date w/ a lovely girl, and I'm raring to get back in the game. However, there is one thing slightly dogging me. Namely, she is going to prom (in what appears to be a romantic context as opposed to a "friends" context) w/ some other guy (I don't know him real well; he asked her after we'd made the date). Now, I'm not that scared---this guy looks like a total AFC---but still, I'm a wee bit rattled for tomorrow night.

I know the basic mindset I should have, and all that, but a lot of the stuff on dealing w/ competition on here is focusing on fending off AMOGs in a club situation, where you're face to face w/ the guy. So, does anyone have any advice as to how to "win" in a situation such as this one?

Thanks guys.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've never been in this kind of situation yet so I could be talking out of my azz, but I would just try to be myself (because myself is fantastic). I'm assuming yourself is fantastic as well, so just be yourself.
 

The Shocker

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Unless yourself sucks. Then be cool, laid-back, confident, groomed, dressed well, etc.
 

EdHunter

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Why yes, myself is rather fantastic....so I think I'll be him this evening.
Thanks, Shock.
 
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