"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Need some help w/ competition

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Tomorrow night, I am looking forward to a nice date w/ a lovely girl, and I'm raring to get back in the game. However, there is one thing slightly dogging me. Namely, she is going to prom (in what appears to be a romantic context as opposed to a "friends" context) w/ some other guy (I don't know him real well; he asked her after we'd made the date). Now, I'm not that scared---this guy looks like a total AFC---but still, I'm a wee bit rattled for tomorrow night.

I know the basic mindset I should have, and all that, but a lot of the stuff on dealing w/ competition on here is focusing on fending off AMOGs in a club situation, where you're face to face w/ the guy. So, does anyone have any advice as to how to "win" in a situation such as this one?

Thanks guys.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've never been in this kind of situation yet so I could be talking out of my azz, but I would just try to be myself (because myself is fantastic). I'm assuming yourself is fantastic as well, so just be yourself.
 
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Unless yourself sucks. Then be cool, laid-back, confident, groomed, dressed well, etc.
 
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Why yes, myself is rather fantastic....so I think I'll be him this evening.
Thanks, Shock.
 
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