"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Need some help w/ competition

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EdHunter

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Tomorrow night, I am looking forward to a nice date w/ a lovely girl, and I'm raring to get back in the game. However, there is one thing slightly dogging me. Namely, she is going to prom (in what appears to be a romantic context as opposed to a "friends" context) w/ some other guy (I don't know him real well; he asked her after we'd made the date). Now, I'm not that scared---this guy looks like a total AFC---but still, I'm a wee bit rattled for tomorrow night.

I know the basic mindset I should have, and all that, but a lot of the stuff on dealing w/ competition on here is focusing on fending off AMOGs in a club situation, where you're face to face w/ the guy. So, does anyone have any advice as to how to "win" in a situation such as this one?

Thanks guys.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've never been in this kind of situation yet so I could be talking out of my azz, but I would just try to be myself (because myself is fantastic). I'm assuming yourself is fantastic as well, so just be yourself.
 
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Unless yourself sucks. Then be cool, laid-back, confident, groomed, dressed well, etc.
 
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Why yes, myself is rather fantastic....so I think I'll be him this evening.
Thanks, Shock.
 
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