"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hi there..

To make a long story a little shorter:

A girl saw me while she drove by with her parents once, and found me on an internet chatting thing later (like your msn-space, kind of). She told me she had seen me and after a while of chit-chat we ended up with the conclusion that she was an American spy who spied on hot Norwegians. That was her words..

Then we met yesterday and talked for about an hour while eating some ice cream. We did the same today. She told me I looked better in real life than in spy-mode, which must mean that she thinks I look quite good (as she already said I was hot in spy-mode..). I guess she's a HB 7.5-8.

I'm 16, she's 14. What should I do now? I don't think more ice cream-eating trips with talking is so good anymore, or I'll just be LJBF'd. What kind of a date should I bring her on? I live in a rather small town.. 14000 inhabitants.

I know that she plays handball and that she likes to play volleyball. I consider to ask her to play beach volleyball this saturday, but then I would have to get more people to join etc etc. Is this a good or bad idea?

My main question is, though, what to do now? What kind of date to bring her on? I need some help, as I've suddenly run out of ideas..

Thank you =)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yah man, if there's no grass on the field, you can't play ball. its a rule. LOL.
 
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Don't try and make a date that is totally about her having fun. Make a date that is mutually fun - ie.. take her along with you to something that you do and can share with her...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You have to do nothing - you already have her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hors are starting much younger these days -- she is a typical american kiddy hor!!!
 
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flexion_ said:
Don't try and make a date that is totally about her having fun. Make a date that is mutually fun - ie.. take her along with you to something that you do and can share with her...
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All right, thank you for the only serious answer :) I'll try beach volleyball then..

To you others; she's highly developed both in mind and in looks. She looks like she's 16-17 and she behaves like 16-17 - and she's not a wh*re, god damn it.
 
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