"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Need some help on this one

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Hi there..

To make a long story a little shorter:

A girl saw me while she drove by with her parents once, and found me on an internet chatting thing later (like your msn-space, kind of). She told me she had seen me and after a while of chit-chat we ended up with the conclusion that she was an American spy who spied on hot Norwegians. That was her words..

Then we met yesterday and talked for about an hour while eating some ice cream. We did the same today. She told me I looked better in real life than in spy-mode, which must mean that she thinks I look quite good (as she already said I was hot in spy-mode..). I guess she's a HB 7.5-8.

I'm 16, she's 14. What should I do now? I don't think more ice cream-eating trips with talking is so good anymore, or I'll just be LJBF'd. What kind of a date should I bring her on? I live in a rather small town.. 14000 inhabitants.

I know that she plays handball and that she likes to play volleyball. I consider to ask her to play beach volleyball this saturday, but then I would have to get more people to join etc etc. Is this a good or bad idea?

My main question is, though, what to do now? What kind of date to bring her on? I need some help, as I've suddenly run out of ideas..

Thank you =)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yah man, if there's no grass on the field, you can't play ball. its a rule. LOL.
 

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Don't try and make a date that is totally about her having fun. Make a date that is mutually fun - ie.. take her along with you to something that you do and can share with her...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You have to do nothing - you already have her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hors are starting much younger these days -- she is a typical american kiddy hor!!!
 

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flexion_ said:
Don't try and make a date that is totally about her having fun. Make a date that is mutually fun - ie.. take her along with you to something that you do and can share with her...
All right, thank you for the only serious answer :) I'll try beach volleyball then..

To you others; she's highly developed both in mind and in looks. She looks like she's 16-17 and she behaves like 16-17 - and she's not a wh*re, god damn it.
 
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