"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Need some help here plz!!!

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sikanhe said:
referring to the girl in my last post: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=175910

We were out last night great chemistry, kino, and made out.
This morningshe txt me saying she dont wanna c me again cuz shes afraid she will have sex with me.
Anyone got any takes and give me help on this?
What a stupid a$$ thing to say dontcha think???? I would ignore her for a while and she what she does. I would not even respond directly or indirectly to her stupid statement.

If you had a girl you was digging would you tell her this? No way!!! You would be getting her horizontal!!! She could be throwing anti slut shield up or could be trying to bail on you. Hell who knows what this thing is trying to pull. DISAPPEAR!!! If she likes you then she will make time to see you again so you can fVck her.

It really sounds like a $hit test to me to see if you only are looking for sex.
 

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my guesses are shes rly attracted to me but she doesnt want to carry a long distance if u have read my thread before. i think shes just not rly up for casual and no string ****
 

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Sikanhe said:
my guesses are shes rly attracted to me but she doesnt want to carry a long distance if u have read my thread before. i think shes just not rly up for casual and no string ****
Apologies to you because I did not read the original thread. Depending on how far she lives and what effort you want to put in it then. Long distance relationships never work though. If it is not too far away and you could spend a little time with her then knock yourself out. Otherwise it sounds like a waste of time. I will go read the thread now.

******I read the thread****** Do not worry about this one and MOVE ON!!!!!!!! Waste of time!!!!! Sounds like you are enamored with her and like Nismo said, leave her alone!! No loss!! You have not invested much yet! Sure things are what I like as you should!
 

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im not planning and not looking for long distance. but im reading her as "if we have sex we have to get in a relationship and i dont want a long distance so lets not have sex."
lets just focus on getting her into bed
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sikanhe said:
im not planning and not looking for long distance. but im reading her as "if we have sex we have to get in a relationship and i dont want a long distance so lets not have sex"
Then why bother then?????? I have had several long distance relation****s and I was getting laid and blowing a lot of money and wasting a lot of time!

Again, choose someone that is GEOGRAPHICALLY DESIRABLE. Nothing wrong with having sex with her either, but ask yourself,"why is she acting in this manner?" Don't waste your time dude!!! Hit it if you can or cut your losses early on.
 

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again, calls me and arranges a date with me tonite. people wish me luck!
 

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Sikanhe said:
referring to the girl in my last post: This morningshe txt me saying she...ld be if we don´t contact eachother any more!
 

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She is bargaining with the OP. That text is how some women negotiate what they want.

Her text statement was a disguised challenge to him to reassure her that he and she will remain in a committed LDR after they fukk.

And that, gentlemen, is how wacky women communicate. To deal with these kinds of women you will require psychic powers and the ability to decode gibberish. Polish your crystal balls and let the guesswork begin.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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well we had a great night great fun great sex. only problem we had was finding a vancant hotel room at 12 at night and i never let off the whole night. thx for all the help guys helped a lot.
 

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