"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need some help here plz!!!

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sikanhe said:
referring to the girl in my last post: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=175910

We were out last night great chemistry, kino, and made out.
This morningshe txt me saying she dont wanna c me again cuz shes afraid she will have sex with me.
Anyone got any takes and give me help on this?
What a stupid a$$ thing to say dontcha think???? I would ignore her for a while and she what she does. I would not even respond directly or indirectly to her stupid statement.

If you had a girl you was digging would you tell her this? No way!!! You would be getting her horizontal!!! She could be throwing anti slut shield up or could be trying to bail on you. Hell who knows what this thing is trying to pull. DISAPPEAR!!! If she likes you then she will make time to see you again so you can fVck her.

It really sounds like a $hit test to me to see if you only are looking for sex.
 

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my guesses are shes rly attracted to me but she doesnt want to carry a long distance if u have read my thread before. i think shes just not rly up for casual and no string ****
 

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Sikanhe said:
my guesses are shes rly attracted to me but she doesnt want to carry a long distance if u have read my thread before. i think shes just not rly up for casual and no string ****
Apologies to you because I did not read the original thread. Depending on how far she lives and what effort you want to put in it then. Long distance relationships never work though. If it is not too far away and you could spend a little time with her then knock yourself out. Otherwise it sounds like a waste of time. I will go read the thread now.

******I read the thread****** Do not worry about this one and MOVE ON!!!!!!!! Waste of time!!!!! Sounds like you are enamored with her and like Nismo said, leave her alone!! No loss!! You have not invested much yet! Sure things are what I like as you should!
 

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im not planning and not looking for long distance. but im reading her as "if we have sex we have to get in a relationship and i dont want a long distance so lets not have sex."
lets just focus on getting her into bed
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sikanhe said:
im not planning and not looking for long distance. but im reading her as "if we have sex we have to get in a relationship and i dont want a long distance so lets not have sex"
Then why bother then?????? I have had several long distance relation****s and I was getting laid and blowing a lot of money and wasting a lot of time!

Again, choose someone that is GEOGRAPHICALLY DESIRABLE. Nothing wrong with having sex with her either, but ask yourself,"why is she acting in this manner?" Don't waste your time dude!!! Hit it if you can or cut your losses early on.
 

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again, calls me and arranges a date with me tonite. people wish me luck!
 

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Sikanhe said:
referring to the girl in my last post: This morningshe txt me saying she...ld be if we don´t contact eachother any more!
 

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She is bargaining with the OP. That text is how some women negotiate what they want.

Her text statement was a disguised challenge to him to reassure her that he and she will remain in a committed LDR after they fukk.

And that, gentlemen, is how wacky women communicate. To deal with these kinds of women you will require psychic powers and the ability to decode gibberish. Polish your crystal balls and let the guesswork begin.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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well we had a great night great fun great sex. only problem we had was finding a vancant hotel room at 12 at night and i never let off the whole night. thx for all the help guys helped a lot.
 

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